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Day After day, all I see are dog owners training their dogs in the wrong way.
Now, generally my advice is to train whichever way works for you, but usually harsh training is not
the best method – even if it does produce fairly good results.
This is because good results with harsh training are usually accompanied with other negative
qualities. For example, if you hit your dog in order for them to listen, it may work but it will
also bring with it a fear of you and a fear of other people. If that happens the dog will not be
listening to you because it wants to and because it understands what is being asked of it, it will
simply be afraid to do anything through fear of being hit again.
So, harsh training is definitely not advised! Instead try a kinder, gentler approach. Granted it
is not always easy when you are so frustrated with the dog for ignoring you, but overall the
results are a lot better. Dog training is not easy but with perseverance you will get there in the
end!
Here are the 7 Ways to Make Your Dog LOVE You
The deepest desire of every dog owner is to be loved by their dog. From the moment you see a
well-trained, loyal dog as a child you want your very own – a pet that will follow your every move
and protect you above all else.
But, sometimes, we mislead ourselves as to what will actually make our dogs love us. It’s not
just about spoiling them. There needs to be discipline and clear leadership in the household. But,
after you’ve taken control, these tips will make that relationship better than ever.
1. Treat Discipline – Avoid giving any table scraps to your dog. It’s a confusing message for
them in regards to who’s in charge and it can lead to an unhealthy dog, who is in turn not a happy
dog. But, a treat every now and
then will always make them love you that much more.
2. Playing Every Day – When you’ve been at work all day, the last thing you may want to do is
play with your dog. But, it’s very important to play at least once a day, for an hour or so. Even
if that is just throwing a toy and
playing fetch while watching TV, your dog doesn’t mind.
3. Go on Rides – If you establish yourself as the clear pack leader of your home, your dog will
feel privileged to be taken with you on trips in the car or to the store. If it’s possible to take
your dog with, take them.
4. Interact on Their Level – One of the easiest ways to ingratiate yourself toward a dog is to
get down on their level and talk to them and give them attention. If a dog is left to its own
devices on the floor, especially if it
is not allowed on the couch, it will feel left out.
By joining your dog on the floor and at its bed, you can share even more special bonding time
that will show the dog that you care.
5. Walks – Never underestimate the power of a good walk. Even if your dog appears to be only
interested in sniffing that bush behind the tree on the corner, they are extremely excited to be
out of the house with you. Make
sure to occasionally get their attention while walking.
6. Grooming and Health – It may not seem like it right now, but your dog appreciates the time
you spend bathing, grooming and caring for it. Even if the dog hates the bath, she loves being
clean and she knows who does that
for her.
If nothing else, a healthy dog is a happy dog and that happiness will almost always be directed
at you. Many times, a grouchy dog is one that is in poor health without enough exercise. That is
always something you can fix.
7. Display Positive Feelings – A dog reacts to your body language and emotions far more than
your actions and your words. You can say “I love you” to a dog, but it won’t have any meaning
unless you really mean it and show
it.
So, truly feel the emotions that you’re presenting to the dog. Don’t be impatient or gruff, and
always allow your dog to play. Sure, you need to be the alpha leader, but you also need to show her
that you care.
Having a dog is a symbiotic relationship. The time you spend with her is based as much on what
she gets from you as what you get from her. So, if you truly want your dog to love you, you simply
need to love her.
More often than not, someone who spends the most time with the dog and loves her significantly
will be able to enjoy that level of love and devotion we always dream of.
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